My 21 month old daughter has been in her bed since DEC 05 the problem is I used to pat her to sleep which took anywhere from 1/2hr to 1.5hr. After many arguements whith her father we have gone back to (not control crying, I didn't like it) but to what the super nanny does, by staying in the room near the door or something like that. I feel it will be successful but will be slow. She knows what to do but plays with her toys, when she does goes to sleep she wakes again 2-4hrs later gets out of bed crying she can't get back in as the bed is too high to climb back up for her, so I then have to go put her back in and put her to sleep which takes 1/2hr. I have thought of getting a little step for the bed, which I haven't done that yet but thought I would ask for some advice if that is right or wrong to do?
21 month old