Whenever they visit my daughter does a little don't go grandma, I want to come with. So yesterday she told our daughter that whenever she wants to come home with grandma she can now. Good God, when did people start imaging that a 2 year old has the option to go where they want, when they want. Besides the fact once Grandma leaves she goes happily back to whatever she was doing.
I probably sound like an awful person, but I never went off with my Grandma when I was 2. Also it is the way they give her whatever she wants, when she wants, no rules, could stay up all night if she wants.
She has also started getting money off them, everytime they come she gets their purse now and they give her money. In the last week they have given her $30, so now she expects money.
I feel so insecure, because my MIL makes you feel that you can't approach her, and what she says is law. My husband doesn't want to say anything because he doesn't want to hurt her. I amnot prepared to have a disappearing 2 year old, especially when all our rules get thrown out the window when she is if Grandma.
Sorry this is long but I am so upset and worried about the whole thing.