All of what you say is very true and relevant. However, i would have thought that you of all people, with the job you do, would be the first to stand up and say that the mother should look at EVERY aspect of the childs behaviors and the reasons behind them. Wouldn't a routine check for sexual assault be a good thing to rule out quickly so they can move onto other things?
I definately think she should look at every aspect of child's behaviour but I don't think it's appropriate to look at sexual abuse 1st and foremost and not as the ONLY reason for the child's behaviour. The thing I'm trying to convey here is that it's not just a routine check and I think that other aspect need to be explored and ruled out before anything else.