I am in a defacto relationship with my fiancee. We have a 27 month old daughter and a 11 1/2 month old daughter, I am also pregnant with our third child. A boy due in december. My partner thinks just because he works during the day he comes home at the end of the day and decides, he shouldn't have to do anything because he's been at work. He needs a break. Where is my break. I'm up at the crack of dawn, washing clothes, towels, sheets. Doing dishes, making beds, sweeping, vaccuming, washing floors, changing nappies, preparing meals, steralising bottles, not to metion washing CLOTH nappies. Putting up with temper tantrums. As well as grocery shopping with two kids. When do I get a break. The girls will very rarely sleep at the same time. The only time I get a break, is when I go to bed at night, which is usually disturbed by my kids. The majority of the time he's worse than they are. leaving dirty clothes everywhere, dropping his stuff as he walks through the house, in his mud covered boots on my freshly cleaned floors. Why should he get a break, I certainly don't.