Just wanted to know if any of you have experienced the same as this. My partner has a 6yr old son from a previous relationship and we have him once a month for the weekend. My problem is whenever I'm around him I feel completely frustrated and annoyed, which I honestly feel terrible about. I feel he's always doing things he shouldnt be, he never listens and is just really rude. Understandably he comes from a totally different environment to what we have here (he has 3 other brothers to 3 different dads ... whenever we go to pick him up they're all running around in the dirt with only nappies on, no shoes, filthy as etc etc, which I could never do), and whenever he's staying here his dad and I are constantly arguing which we never do usually. I'm at my wits end as to what we can do to deal with this situation. Jaida loves him to bits, but I don't want her picking up his bad habits ... and would really like to have a good relationship with him.
Help anyone ??
Jaida (6), Ameli (2) & Lacey (2mths) - SA