I'm having my 3rd baby in march next year and I didn't have a baby shower with my other two cause I had all the stuff and I'm thinking to have a high tea without kids so my friends and I can enjoy yourselves and I got a friend who has offered to do it which is nice but I know where I want to have my baby shower and I got two prices to chose from it's between $18.50 and $23.00 and which I think is very good but my friend reckons I should have it at park but still do the High tea but it's my baby shower and they don't have to pay alot on a present, I wouldn't care if one my friends had that and plus pay a present for their baby.

Am I being unfair or is my friend taking over my baby shower already?