The article went on to say that most of them surveyed responded that marriage wasnt what they thought it would be hence they wanted to get out while they were still young so they could still find their 'perfect' partner. Most also said that they 'sort of' knew it may not turn out but knew that the option of divorce was easy.
I know that some people have a genuine reason to divorce EG their spouse cheats, physical/mental/emotional abuse etc. But do you think that divorce is made too easy these days? If you are divorced are you still happy with your decision to do so? Do you feel you or your husband couldve done more to save the marriage?
I've been married for 16.5 years now and it has not been easy. DH and I agreed that when our twins were old enough we would seperate. We felt as if we'd grown apart so much that we just resented each other. I resented the fact he was at work so much and not at home helping me more often and he resented the fact that when he walked in the door he was handed a baby and being told by me what to do.However once things settled down and we each opened up to each other plus got some help things dramatically improved. He never moved out and now even though we still have our ups and downs we are glad that we made that effort to stay together.