I've been friends with this girl for almost 12 years and just since I've had my son she's gone funny.
Its not the fact that I've had a baby as she has 2 girls of her own aged 3 and 19 months.
We used to speak regularly, but now its very rare, and usually if I ring her. When we do speak I feel as though she deliberately tries to get me in a bad mood, which annoys me so much that I get in a bad mood (but she doesn't know that as I don't let her see it).
To top things off she was even late (showed up about 5-10 minutes before it all finished) to my son's christening as they were paving their driveway. No apologies or made up excuses, and they didn't even say anything to us it was my uncle who told me why. Plus when we went to her house a few days later for tea and they blatantly pointed out their paving and asked me what I thought of it, I didn't dignify them with a response.
I've come to a few reasons as to why I think she's gone off her tree.
1. I had a boy as she has 2 girls.
2. She wasn't asked to be a godparent (we aren't to her kids but thats not why she wasn't chosen).
3. He's a good baby and I don't run to her for advice (I run to you guys).
4. My husband helps out heaps, whereas hers doesn't.
My sister-in-law thought she might be jealous of me but I don't think I have anything to be jealous of.
Has anyone got a similar situation or is it just me?
Let me know what you think
member since 2004