I love hugalugs, no suprise there - lol.
Some-times conversation is a bit boring, other times its really stimulating and some-times, it can be down right nasty.
For the most part, I like it because people can push the boundaries of a topic. On the so called 'non judgemental' forums, you will find people aren't being honest and keeping their judgements to themselves, telling people what they want to hear.
I'd rather hear the truth, albeit ugly at times, to hopefully broaden my views and opinions and at the end of the day, learn some-thing.
DD is 3yr 8 months - DS is 6 months