The thing that they both make me feel most guilty about is that they haven't looked after her yet. My husband and I have been together for 9 years and tried for a baby for over 2 years (we were just about to start IVF procedures) so we don't want to be away from her yet. She is the best child you can take her anywhere and you wouldn't even know she was there. I have spent some time away from her as I had to go back to hospital for an operation. We have explained that they will have there time but not yet. They are made to feel welcome to visit whenever they want but this is obviously not enough. Some advice as to how to handle in-laws that make you feel guilty and that you aren't doing the right thing by your child would be appreciated.
neat,QLD, mum of 1 girl and twin boys