DD1 had a junior semi-final to run line for (she’s a junior rugby league referee) in the morning and after she got home, she asked if she could go to the movies with a friend whom she made out was from school. As she’d been really good for a couple of months I thought OK she’s earned my trust enough for us to let her go out on her own with a friend for a few hours.
BIG MISTAKE!! The little cow met up with some guy who is at the very least 18yrs old (she mentioned him dropping her home when his mate came back with his car when I called at 7pm to ask what time she was getting home), and then decided that she’s old enough to do as she pleases and stayed out with him and his mates all night. ...as I type this she still isn’t home!! She’s got her mobile turned off (she said it was flat last night but I tried after she told me that and it rang out gggrrr) and I’m so freaking angry with her right now that I just don’t know what else to do.
She told me she was in Cleveland somewhere (we live in Gailes) and as my car is at the mechanic at the moment she knows I can’t go pick her up and even if I did have the car, with the 2 boys I can’t just drive around looking for her. I feel like calling the cops but all I’ve got is the name of the guy she is with and a mobile phone number she was texting me from last night. I called her on that number just after 9pm which is when she told me she was in Cleveland, but when I asked for the address she told me she didn’t know it and the other guys didn’t either....as you can imagine that’s when I got angry and told her to go outside and look at the street name and the house number...and that’s when she hung up on me and turned that phone off.
Should I call the cops and risk her being really pissed at me for getting the guys into trouble (cos I’m damn sure an 18yr old guy who wants a 14yr old girl to stay the night is up to no good) or just sit and wait for her to come home? We had a big chat months ago about her behaviour and boys etc and I thought we had this issue sorted but obviously not sad
What really worries me, besides not knowing where she is and imagining what she’s been up to, is the fact that she’s left her pill here at home and she’s on day 14 of her cycle!! She’s on the pill for her period pain etc and she has been sexually active a couple of times that I’m aware of (and not bloody happy about either) but the last thing I want is my little girl coming home pregnant!
[Edited on 03/09/2009 by Huggies_Moderator]
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