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Just out of curiosity for those who have an ex husband, I have seen a few ladies call their exes "morons" "idiots" "losers" and a few other names, and I was wondering when do you start to feel that way? Was it when you were still together, or after he left (or you left)?

I know there are some circumstances (ie when he is abusive) that are pretty obvious, but I'm meaning just normal break-ups because "its not working anymore".
Judging by half the women on here, it was the men who ran a mile and the women are just venting their feelings of abandonment with all the name calling........sad really.
Its just a stab in the dark here, but if they weren't morons, idiots or losers then they would probably still be with them.
Funnily enough agree with star! lol

For me it was when he started to stuff me around with the children. Refusing to turn up when promised, Telling the girls he would come get them and then either make them wait or not turn up, not paying child support or buying the kids clothing and underwear to keep at his own place, quizzing the girls on what happens in our house, asking to go to counselling and then deciding he wouldnt get it all his way so stopped going, putting alcohol before the kids on the day he is supposed to have them....the list really goes on and on for me.
I think it would be all of the reasons you listed.

I dont blame them really. If i was in that situation i would have a lot to vent about lol
for DS father it was when i told him i was pregnant with DS his child and he tried to tell me it wasnt his cos he had had a vasectomy. he was the one that suggested we start trying for a baby in the first place! and i knew it was definately his.

and for my current partner and DDs father. i really think he is a deadset moron. yes im still with him but cant see it lasting much longer. he treats us all like pooh and im getting mighty sick of it.

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When I was with them because if I didn't think that about them then I would still be there.

Hmmmm .. probably around the time I found out he was addicted to porn and sleeping with prostitutes on his business trips!!! However, I've always been extremely careful that DS doesn't know I hate his father (in fact, I doubt his father knows I hate him!!) and do my very best to keep everything as civil as possible. Strangely enough, my new husband is the strictest on this - he never lets me bad mouth my ex in front of my son and would never do it himself, although when he does let off steam (out of earshot of DS) its quite amusing!!

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For me it was when ex-DH decided that he couldn't handle the kids anymore (DD1 was 3.5yrs and DD2 was 18mths) and moved out to shack up with a woman with 6 kids, and then expected me to supply enough food etc when he had the girls but it had to be enough for ALL the kids!!! WTF???? I don't bloody think so!!!

LOL can't handle 2 but can handle 6 that aren't his own...funnily enough it didn't last too long hehehe

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Posted by: Jenni_B
However, I've always been extremely careful that DS doesn't know I hate his father (in fact, I doubt his father knows I hate him!!) and do my very best to keep everything as civil as possible. !!


same, granted every now and then I get in and have a rant, very very rarely BUT i could call him evry name in the book but in the end i was the "idiot" "moron" "loser" that had a baby with him.

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