it was arranged that he would see ds once a fortnight and that he could ring ds every week on a wednesday between 4 and 5pm. now 2 weeks in a row ex dp has failed to stick to this agreement, first week he rang at 6.30 using the excuse his phone wasnt working properly and spoke to ds for about 2 minutes as was on a pay phone.
then this week he sent a message after 5pm asking me to ring a different number as he had lost his phone. this time ds was asleep and i didnt have the credit to return the phone call.
so what would you do? do you accept his calls even if they are outside the agreed time and make a note of it in case it turns out to be an ongoing thing or do you put your foot down and stop him talking to ds outside these times. and if he had no credit etc would you return the phone call
mum to one goregous boy