I dont have very good coping skills at all ...I am not good with change and I dont handle curve balls one little bit !!
Hubby and I are super super carefull with sex as I fall pregnant quite easily ..it is keeping them I have an issue with ..and even with the trouble I have had ..if I was to fall pregnant now ..an abortion would be something that we would definatly discuss ...who knows what I would end up doing ??? I may even keep it ...I dont know ...but I am not in that position to make the decision so I can only surmise what I would do ....
none of these people are the ones dealing with two small children and being pregnant and moving and doing that all on your own ...If I was in your position ...I would ask the mods to delete this thread as there is very little that is constructive ...but then again you did ask the general public their opinion and you got it !! lol lol lol but I am not to sure your going to like what has been said ..as valid as their opinions are ...I dont think it is going to be sconstructive in your position ...go tot he link that Rikki posted and get yourselves some councelling ...this is a huge decision and for me ??? the fact that you are so unsure about it would steer me into the relm of "no" ...I think with this sort of thing you either know what your going to do or you dont ..if there is doubt then I personally wouldnt !! ...
good luck ..hope you can make the rightdecision for you and your family and you make it soonish !!
Hubby and I are super super carefull with sex as I fall pregnant quite easily ..it is keeping them I have an issue with ..and even with the trouble I have had ..if I was to fall pregnant now ..an abortion would be something that we would definatly discuss ...who knows what I would end up doing ??? I may even keep it ...I dont know ...but I am not in that position to make the decision so I can only surmise what I would do ....
none of these people are the ones dealing with two small children and being pregnant and moving and doing that all on your own ...If I was in your position ...I would ask the mods to delete this thread as there is very little that is constructive ...but then again you did ask the general public their opinion and you got it !! lol lol lol but I am not to sure your going to like what has been said ..as valid as their opinions are ...I dont think it is going to be sconstructive in your position ...go tot he link that Rikki posted and get yourselves some councelling ...this is a huge decision and for me ??? the fact that you are so unsure about it would steer me into the relm of "no" ...I think with this sort of thing you either know what your going to do or you dont ..if there is doubt then I personally wouldnt !! ...
good luck ..hope you can make the rightdecision for you and your family and you make it soonish !!