And when I confronted him this morning he said that I should jsut f*** off and leave him alone.
Leave him alone, let him wallow in his self pity. Dont let him drag you down with him, I wouldn't be waiting for him to grow up love, you are better than that!
I truly know I am being abused. I will get through this and I wont be a door mat.
GOOD GIRL!!!!, see, I told you that you are far from weak! No-one has the right to treat you as a door-mat, nor emotionally abuse you the way that he is. YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS, I have every bit of confidence that you will. It's not going to be easy, but we are all here to help where we can.
Drawn line in sand. Will see where this goes. I have gone from been sorry that I am a failure. To what the heck am I thinking. This guy is a moron and loser. No more.
Well done!!! You arent the failure in this - the way he is treating you is the thing that is failing. No-one who loves a person treats them like this. I am so glad that you are seeing things a bit clearer today.
Anyway I am sick of being the victim. I thank you all for your ideas. I truly am thankful. I just need to start on making my life better.
You ARE very strong B, just give yourself the chance to show it. I am glad you can see that you are a victim in all of this, and that you are certainly not the cause. Your right, you do need to make your life better, I hope you can work out where to start and what you need to do this - I really cant see your DH ever helping you achieve it though.
Best of luck and love to you B - you will find your way through and you will shine once again when you get there.