DF has left me tonight.
he has been really not himself for a couple of weeks now and I have been trying to help him by being there for him etc. he keeps saying that he isn't in the right head space, and that its not me it him. tonight he said he cant do it anymore and he was leaving.
after nearly 2hrs of us talking and crying he said he was going down to his brothers.
I msged his bro to see if he was there, and he rang me asking what was was wrong. him and his GF came up to make sure I was ok, which I wasn't, but DD has a cold and they wanted to make sure that we were actually ok.
any way turns out DF didnt go to his brothers, so no idea where he went.
he has sent me a msg telling me he is sorry, but its over, and asked if DD was alright.
I have just gotten a msg from him now asking if he can stay in the spare room, which im ok about I spose, I dont want him sleeping in his car. I still do care so much about him and love him to bits, but he said he doesnt feel that way about me anymore. I'm at a loss, no idea what Im going to do. I havent even told my parents yet cause i think in my head Im pretending its not happening and that we will be fine
we have a house together and I cant afford to pay the mortgage which I told him and he said he will keep paying it, but if he does that then I dont know where he will live as he wont be able to afford to rent. I know that it seems Im worrying about him too much, but I am really worried as I think he has depression and not accepting that he does.
he is also scared that his parents will hate him. I told them that they wont , they maybe a little disappointed about it but not hate him. he also keeps saying that the only ppl that are his friends are our families, which is mostly true, as last night he had a falling out with his mate.
soo sorry if none of this makes any sense. no need for replies I just dont know what I will do. I feel like Im no one with out him.
he has been really not himself for a couple of weeks now and I have been trying to help him by being there for him etc. he keeps saying that he isn't in the right head space, and that its not me it him. tonight he said he cant do it anymore and he was leaving.
after nearly 2hrs of us talking and crying he said he was going down to his brothers.
I msged his bro to see if he was there, and he rang me asking what was was wrong. him and his GF came up to make sure I was ok, which I wasn't, but DD has a cold and they wanted to make sure that we were actually ok.
any way turns out DF didnt go to his brothers, so no idea where he went.
he has sent me a msg telling me he is sorry, but its over, and asked if DD was alright.
I have just gotten a msg from him now asking if he can stay in the spare room, which im ok about I spose, I dont want him sleeping in his car. I still do care so much about him and love him to bits, but he said he doesnt feel that way about me anymore. I'm at a loss, no idea what Im going to do. I havent even told my parents yet cause i think in my head Im pretending its not happening and that we will be fine
we have a house together and I cant afford to pay the mortgage which I told him and he said he will keep paying it, but if he does that then I dont know where he will live as he wont be able to afford to rent. I know that it seems Im worrying about him too much, but I am really worried as I think he has depression and not accepting that he does.
he is also scared that his parents will hate him. I told them that they wont , they maybe a little disappointed about it but not hate him. he also keeps saying that the only ppl that are his friends are our families, which is mostly true, as last night he had a falling out with his mate.
soo sorry if none of this makes any sense. no need for replies I just dont know what I will do. I feel like Im no one with out him.