Hi Ladies,
DH and I are having issues with DD1 (nearly 4) with her behaviour and have decided to make up a reward chart but I have a few questions for people who have used them in the past.
1) The items I have written on the rewards chart is eat breakfast and feed yourself, eat lunch etc, eat dinner, pack away toys, listen to mummy and daddy and stay in bed at night.
After reading something on here a while back I have also made up a treat box so at the end of the day she can have a small treat to reward her good behaviour. However do you think I am unreasonable to only give her the treat box if she gets all her stars for the day? My SIL said that she thinks if she gets all but 1 she should still have it as we are have only started doing it today.
2) Have you found reward charts to be successful? Im really at my wits end with her so something has to change.
TIA
Bek x
DH and I are having issues with DD1 (nearly 4) with her behaviour and have decided to make up a reward chart but I have a few questions for people who have used them in the past.
1) The items I have written on the rewards chart is eat breakfast and feed yourself, eat lunch etc, eat dinner, pack away toys, listen to mummy and daddy and stay in bed at night.
After reading something on here a while back I have also made up a treat box so at the end of the day she can have a small treat to reward her good behaviour. However do you think I am unreasonable to only give her the treat box if she gets all her stars for the day? My SIL said that she thinks if she gets all but 1 she should still have it as we are have only started doing it today.
2) Have you found reward charts to be successful? Im really at my wits end with her so something has to change.
TIA
Bek x