I am pregnant with my 4th baby, and still can't imagine this being my last.
Did other people know it was time and easily make the decision to have no more children or was it a hard choice that is still hard to accept but done for particular reasons ie finances so the decisision won't be changed?
I have four children and I KNOW more then anything in this world that I DO NOT want anymore children. Four is huge! Money wise, energy wise, time wise, everything! What kind of car would you get, would each child be able to get everything they NEED!
For me tho, I knew I didnt want anymore, when I see or hear about a new baby I dont get all clucky and feel like I just HAVE to have one. Instead I feel sorry for the new parent! haha.. All those horrible sleepless nights, sore boobs, having to be attached to another all the time, no my hip has def had enough..
I enjoy time with my children doing things with them, along side them now.
With my youngest 15 months I cant wait until she is running around by her self.. she still isnt walking..
I thinks its a joint agreement also, I was done at 3, but my husband really wanted a forth, so we had four. How old are you? I think age has heaps to do with it too, I told myself I wouldnt have kids after I turned 30. That our family would be done by then, I like the thought of being a young mum with loads of energy and being a young grandparent full of energy.
Now I am reaching 30 in November and am at a total content place.
Trust me you will know when you have had enough.. If you cant decide, maybe you still have more to go!! smile