but we have moved from chch to hamilton and i have to go back to chch to finish it as the uni doesnt do correspondance and waikato doesnt do the degree im doing.
so at the moment i am not able to finish my degree without living apart from DF for 6months which we dont want to do.
i was talking to his mum about it and she said we need to decide if we want to build our family and i can go back to uni in a few years once we've decided if we want to stay in hamilton or return to chch.
and i was thinking about having another baby and realised i would feel guilty having another baby i dont know if im explaining this right.
but i just thought i would as DS is young and so used to all the attention lol i know hed get used to having a baby brother or sister and would be great once the baby was older and could play together.
im prob just being silly. and i am really excited to have more kids and want to have a big family.
so my question is did any of u ladies feel guilty?