I've tried reasoning with him and he just says too bad I'm getting it done. I will be so so mad if he does but then I think one of us had to 'win' this debate so who is it going to be sad
Has anyone been in this situation before and what did you do?
Oh dear ! Is there a reason why he is so against it like something has happened to someone else that has triggered it ? Did he want this third baby ?
I would also find him hard pressed to find a dr that will do the procedure if he is in his 20's. They don't like doing it so young and with a young family, and you being so young. The have to answer all these questions.
Can you ask him to choose between his fish and a vesectomy ? ROFL smile He might chooes the fish LOL
I wanted my tubes done at the same time I had my c section & they refused. Had to wait at least 6 months before they would consider it, I'm over 30. Didn't realise they did the same with males. All I can suggest is talk about it together & try not to get aggitated with each other. I don't think there will be a 'winner' as such, but maybe a compromise can be reached. Hoping anyway. smile