So before falling pregnant with bubba boy number 3 I said that that was it hoping we'd get a girl of having 2 DS's. I was a little upset at first but then got over it by the next day. And after the birth of DS3 and the horrible labour and his size after having 2 8lb 1oz babies going to a 9lb 5 1/2oz I said I'd never do it again. But now I keep dreaming of having another little bubba and that it's a girl. I've spoken to hubby about it but he doesn't want anymore at all and we had spoken about him getting the snip. I don't know how I would go with having 4 little people to look after and I'm sure there would be stressful times etc. I know these feelings are probably normal and I think to myself that even if we did go back that there is a possibly of having another boy whom I would love to the ends of the earth. I said to hubby that I wanted to wait a year or so before trying again but he still isn't keen.