Just wanted to bounce something off you lovely ladies.
It's been a month since we lost bubble. We maded MIL promise (well hubby did) that she wouldn't tell anyone about it due to me wanting to keep it to myself until i felt ready to tell anyone.
Last monday MIL maded a comment that maded me feel like she said something. She told her sister that i was doing better than my sil was.
When we came home i ask hubby if he she ask him if it was ok to tell someone. Hubby said no way. I told him what she said, cause he was playing with our boys.
Anyway on Friday hubby ask her flat out if she told her sister. She said very happily yes i did. I said you promise us you weren't going to tell anyone. That you promise hubby that you weren't going to say anything.
She said that you won't care about this in 5 to 10 years time. I didn't say anything due to not knowing how i feel about it.
Anyway i told hubby that i was done with his family.
MIL maded us promise not to tell anyone about sil losing baby a month before since she not handling it at all.
Now i feel more hurt, i wanted to tell people when i was ready, I wanted to let it sink in more. MIL told them within a week.
Hubby told her off but she doesn't feel bad with what she done.
I told hubby that his family causes way too much stress on me.
So how should i handle her, hubby & i've agreed not to tell her nothing, she says she hasn't told sil & bil but we don't believe her.
Just to update you all, i feel alot better now except for my earache that i have and i have abit of a cold but i'm fine.
We about to go holidays can't wait