Mine is that I've got a lot of resentment toward my dh over his snoring issues, he seems to not care how much it affects me and only tries something new if I nag him to death over it. I'm sick of it and I can't keep putting up with it, I've been feeling really teary over our whole marriage and I'm sick of giving and giving and feeling like he's only present in body. He doesn't give much time or thought to his family, we spend no time together and we're sleeping apart, the good communication we once had is now strained and things are left unsaid. Once upon a time we made decisions together and discussed what we were doing in life, and lately he's just making decisions without consulting me, and I feel like life is about his needs and not mine.
So today I've written him a big long letter to get it out there so we can talk about it, and I hope it helps. I'm feeling so alone and desperately unhappy lately that something has to give... and I want our marriage to work, I really do. I feel like this is the cross roads where we either fix it or leave it, and I keep getting upset over it. So.. I've emailed him that letter and that means tonight will be a big chat, or.. if he decides to get defensive it could be a big argument, but I hope not. I feel slightly better knowing that I've actually told him what the problem is.
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