I have returned to nz after being in oz for 3mths and daewon isn't settling too well as he is at the moment constantly in someone's hand. He is now refusing to be put down and is really hard to settle.
So this morning he woke at about 5.30am and was hard to resettle back to sleep. Who walks in but my mother in law who believes they shouldn't be left to cry as they GET USE TO CRYING. I believe they get use to being carried. She demanded me give him to her and she will carry him. Now during his sleep time they are watching tv >:-< i am so angry...she is undermining me and it is f...ing me off.
My husband is not here with me, he is still in oz and i do not swear at older people. She knows that i am angry and rubbing it in my face more that he is not crying...of course he isnt crying he is being carried...wat am i going to do when i need to put him down. >:-< oh im burning...she is awful. It is only my second night here and i think i am going to stay at my sisters house tomorrow. I was going to stay here a week out of consideration but i don't think i will be able to tolerate it anymore.
What should i do??? He is her grandchild and i can't just take him away as she hasn't seen him for 3mths. DH is coming 2 weeks from now, i was thinking of letting them two stay here and i stay at my sisters so DH knows what i had to put up with. >:-< >:-<
sorry for all the angry faces as i need to get rid of it and this is the best place to do that,
Sue & Daewon 23.03.2004