ok i need to vent my frustrations!! a girl i went to school with (and actually thought was a nice person) has decided she wants to give her baby up for adoption(shes due any day now) ok so its her choice but the reason she doesnt want this kid is because the babies father is a dark skinned maori and she doesnt want her parents to get to know it for sum reason (it makes me totally mad almost to the point i wanna smack her head in any ideas on how i could TRY change her mind i mean this IS a tiny human being and she dont care she doesnt want a little brown baby i hate her now but i just want her to see that colour means nothing and that this kid will give her the most love ever (oh and the fathers telling her to get rid of it as well i can see right thru this chic i can see she wants this kid but shes trying to keep everyone else happy(we even went to my 38 week scan together and she literally begged the lady to scan hers!!)she is only 17 but shes really onto it! whats up with this chic should i just leave things be or what??? its so sad
cherie,mum to Jacob born oct 2004