LOL ladies. It took me til page 2 or 3 of the general to find this thread.
I used to love clicking on the bit that took me to my last active threads and the threads I was watching.
Saved me so much time.
I loved the fact that you could trust people straight away. There was no ganging up on people with different views. I have had some fiery convos with some members then become msn buddies with them. Because i respected their different views and they respected that I had one.
I think a heck of a lot of the respect has gone. And those that I loved to banter with have all changed their names since that fruity loop last year. Me I'll always be a chukka, I am everywhere.
I don't eneter into the debates now that I know are going to cause trouble, like CC, dummies, circumcision, breast feeding.
Does anyone else think that if someone words something wrongly others automatially take it as a personal attack. Its' almost like they sit there just waiting to turn a normal thread nasty.
I can remember when the mods had an easy time too, deleted posts/threads were almost unheard of. Now they are the norm and people get their backs up over them. I feel like saying you asked for it, but then that'd be another debate and get the thread deleted.
Oh and don't get me started over the nwbies with their babies picture in their signature.
I even posted on their how to thread about what happened last year and to be careful etc. I was ignored, I feel like an elder who should be respected not ignore wink LMAO!
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