Hi Jo & Yvette,
Jo you are right - baby blues should be banned and there are sometimes too many people around with conflicting ideas. Shortly after my boys were born, my mum had a heart attack and my cherished Autny passed away - needless to say I had the baby blues plus some!!!
I was very neurotic as well during my pregnancy, after everything we went through it was so hard to believe that it might actually happen that I was so by the book with everything. Needless to say I delivered two very healthy boys at 37 weeks.
We did ICSI as well, overall our IVF experience was excellent, we conceived on the first attempt but I miscarried at 6 weeks, then on the second attempt we had our boys. What is your son's name, my boys are William and Anthony - they are just a delight.
Happy to talk - my email address is [email protected]