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snowqueen replied to topic I didn't get to hold my baby

Yep! They've had their kids, so butt out and let us have ours. Especially when we've gone through hell to bring them into this world.

Thursday 08 December 09:45pm
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snowqueen replied to topic Robbed of the experience?

I had a similar experience. My water broke, I was admitted to hospital. Partner was not allowed to stay as it was about 10pm at night (after "visiting hours"). I remember lying in the ward and cryi...

Monday 05 December 02:05am
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snowqueen replied to topic People in the room when in labour

You need to think about yourself and what makes you comfortable. I know how it feels to have people think they have some automatic right to intrude upon the birth of your children and it is just aw...

Friday 02 December 12:17am
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snowqueen replied to topic I didn't get to hold my baby

im lucky that when i had my last ceaser people did stay away and when they did come to visit they didnt stay for long, it was awesome, bonded with bub perfectly! . my first was similar to you tho...

Wednesday 23 November 12:29am
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snowqueen replied to topic I didn't get to hold my baby

My grandma on mums side did something similar to this. DF and I were staying there overnight as she lives in qld, and we in nsw so we were doing a trip round visiting family. Was November last yea...

Wednesday 23 November 12:25am
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snowqueen replied to topic I didn't get to hold my baby

I'm sorry this happened to you and would definitely recommend counselling because it sounds like this is really affecting you in a bad way. You dont want to keep feeling like this, you should be ...

Tuesday 22 November 11:13pm
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snowqueen replied to topic could i be pregnant?

Test on the day your period is due. From your symptoms I would say you are either about to start a period, or you are pregnant.

Wednesday 28 September 08:11pm
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snowqueen replied to topic I didn't get to hold my baby

I had 2 c-sections too and I made it clear to all that no-one other than DH was to hold the baby until I had and had a chance to b/feed. Luckily they all respected that, but the outlaws totally i...

Wednesday 28 September 07:50pm
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snowqueen replied to topic I didn't get to hold my baby

sorry but could your hubby not just stand up to them and tell them to back off instead of having to go to the effort of changing dates etc. If he doesn't this will go on forever. They were asked...

Wednesday 28 September 07:44pm
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snowqueen replied to topic I didn't get to hold my baby

Thankyou for the responses, it is reassuring. I might add that the reason I am holding on to the anger is that this is just the latest in a stream of intrusive and completely thoughtless behaviour ...

Wednesday 28 September 08:03am
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snowqueen replied to topic Intruding Visitors after C-section.

It appalls me that some people are so insensitive or so arrogant that they would intrude upon the most private moment of your life - even after you have requested privacy. Surely anyone would reali...

Tuesday 27 September 01:38am
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snowqueen started new topic I didn't get to hold my baby

I didn't get to hold my baby on the day she was born because of intruding in-laws. My baby is now nine months old and I am still devastated. I had requested that family give me a little bit of spa...

Monday 26 September 11:47pm
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