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Jakesmama replied to topic A question for the smackers

:shrug: Like I said its my opinion. I get really annoyed when people say spanking is wrong. My parents smacked me as a punishment not as a general everyday ok thing to do. I therefore completely st...

Thursday 30 July 05:41am
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Jakesmama replied to topic PMS

Haha oh yeah I never use to have PMS or anything and after DS was born I turned into the hormonal woman from hell!!! I take evening primrose oil and fish oil and I've found its stabilised my moods ...

Wednesday 29 July 10:46am
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Jakesmama replied to topic A question for the smackers

Well it obviously worked for us. I never held getting spanked against my parents and I really don't understand why people have this big thing against corporal punishment. There were alot less arrog...

Wednesday 29 July 10:29am
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Jakesmama replied to topic Privacy in Relationshps!

I know DPs facebook password but he never remembers my password lol everything else is joint though - email, bank accounts, etc. I'll open his mail if I get to it first and viceversa but cellphone...

Saturday 25 July 10:32am
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Jakesmama replied to topic A question for the smackers

Seems anti-smackers are of the opinion that spanking is the ONLY form of discipline pro-spankers use. As an older child my parents had a list on the back of the bathroom door with what was unaccept...

Saturday 25 July 10:16am
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Jakesmama replied to topic Working out whats right for my unborn child and her father.

In NZ you'd get full custody. If you can get soem stuff together showing his behaviour, etc then you could go for supervised visits. I personally wouldn't let my child stay with anybody behaving li...

Saturday 25 July 09:51am
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Jakesmama replied to topic how often do you...

When not preg uhm 1-3 times a day, when preg haha whats sex?! lol nah probably once a week? I've got nasty bad morning sickness and chucking up halfway through a shag ruins the mood!!!

Saturday 25 July 09:43am
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Jakesmama replied to topic I really dont know what to do..

I'm so sorry you're in this situation its so tough! My advice is to leave. I know thats a scary thought coz I'm in almost the exact same position as you - 1st bubs dad not on the scene, new partne...

Saturday 25 July 09:32am
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Jakesmama replied to topic Palmerston North Mums

Yay would you like to catch up for a coffee somewhere maybe next wednesday morning?

Saturday 25 July 08:26am
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Jakesmama replied to topic Any Mums to be in Palmerston north??

Yep got it lol talk soon!

Saturday 25 July 08:24am
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Jakesmama replied to topic Food bill

I spend about $60NZ a fortnight for me, DP, DS (2) and dog. I buy our meat in bulk which is just under $400 a year so would be the equivalent of $30 a month. We use cloth nappies, have a vege garde...

Saturday 25 July 07:14am
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Jakesmama replied to topic Porn

Posted by: No Longer a Member I don't like porn, I wouldn't like DH watching it (thankfully it's never been his 'thing' and there is certainly none in our house) and I don't like what it does to pe...

Sunday 19 July 11:48am
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Jakesmama replied to topic De-Cluttered Houses

Mmm lol being really firm with yourself is important! Do you need it? Do you use it? Have you got anything else that does the same job or meets the same need? Don't keep anything 'just in case' and...

Sunday 19 July 11:27am
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Jakesmama replied to topic Does your husband....

I've been flat on my back with morning sickness and my DP has been a legend. Hes up to date on the washing, vacuuming, bathroom and toilet, dishes, does all the meals and he even makes the bread an...

Sunday 19 July 11:14am
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Jakesmama replied to topic Going off Cathy's thread......

I'm content with my body. Theres room for improvement yeah but I figure if I eat well, get in regular exercise, have alot of fun and have people that love me then I shouldn't worry. I have a histor...

Sunday 19 July 05:18am
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Jakesmama replied to topic Hoping for some help with carbs, proteins etc.

My mum has a thyroid problem and my dad broke his back last year. They both ended up carrying more weight than usual. They found this book called Body For Life which is a bodybuilding system and de...

Sunday 19 July 04:50am
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Jakesmama replied to topic How much is your mortgage?

Our mortgage was $150,000 when we brought our place last year coz we added an extra $20,000 onto the price of the house to do some renos. We added an extra $8,000 onto it again coz we got rid of on...

Sunday 19 July 04:34am
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Jakesmama replied to topic Natural cold and flu remedies..

I use lemon and honey drinks, mustard footbaths (my 2 year old loves them!), I mix up honey and garlic cloves and let it steep overnight and use it as a throat soother - its great for coughs and ta...

Sunday 19 July 02:57am
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Jakesmama replied to topic De-Cluttered Houses

Our spare room (soon to be babys room) is my clutter corner and it drives me mad! We're in the process of putting our garage up so all DPs engineering gear and tools and stuff are in there and its ...

Sunday 19 July 02:50am
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Jakesmama replied to topic Weekly meal plans - who does one?

Hehe it does sound good doesn't it???! It doesn't always go to plan unfortunately but it definitely helps!! Good luck and if you want any recipes let me know ETA we live on $60(NZ) a fortnight so...

Saturday 18 July 09:30am
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