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1down1tocome replied to topic Deciding custody of kids

Oh its just terrible, i know he is doing it to annoy me and to make me snap. He reckons he has spoken to 3 lawyers (legal adi though as he is broke) and they said what he is doing is ok...(who know...

Wednesday 12 December 01:45pm
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1down1tocome replied to topic Deciding custody of kids

He came to get the girls and saw some notes of my own i have been taking about his past and he leaves then sends me a text saying "if any of that stuff is brought up welll..............have a ...

Monday 10 December 10:36am
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1down1tocome replied to topic Deciding custody of kids

Oh definately, would love some certainty in our lives. So i guess yeh my next step is relationships aus and mediator...but in the mean time can i say no i dont feel comfortable with what he is aski...

Sunday 09 December 10:28pm
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1down1tocome replied to topic Deciding custody of kids

Thanks heaps yeh i would love to sort it out between us and i thought we had, originally he had said one night, then it went to two, now he is pushing for three because he was told. and just the wa...

Sunday 09 December 10:13pm
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1down1tocome replied to topic Deciding custody of kids

Oh god would the courts not see how young they both are, especially the 5month old to have sleepovers and be away that often from her mother? When he lived here, he sure as hell was not participat...

Sunday 09 December 09:38pm
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1down1tocome replied to topic Deciding custody of kids

Yeh i have mentioned to him numerous times to please think of whats in the best interests of the girls and that they need structure and routine but he is just doing and saying everything that suits...

Sunday 09 December 09:08pm
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1down1tocome started new topic Deciding custody of kids

Hello all My two girls (aged 2 in jan and 5mths this month) and I are stuck in this battle of when my ex wants to see them...and suddenly now that he has moved out he wants to see them everyday a...

Thursday 06 December 09:25pm
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1down1tocome replied to topic Xmas pressies from kids to their dad after you have split?!

Mmm it will make me cringe at the thought, but i guess for the sake of the kids it has to be done, and as they get older they will pick up on it and its fun for them . Thanks ladies

Thursday 22 November 11:03pm
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1down1tocome replied to topic Xmas pressies from kids to their dad after you have split?!

To be honest after the way he just walked out on his family for no reason (or none that he can be bothered explaining to me anyways!) i feel like he deserves nothing!!!!!!!! I will just get my DD t...

Thursday 22 November 10:54pm
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1down1tocome replied to topic Xmas pressies from kids to their dad after you have split?!

Obviously the girls dont understand it all at the moment but soon enough they will...i am undecided as to whether i just get something small and only bring it out if i see he has gotten something f...

Thursday 22 November 10:08pm
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1down1tocome started new topic Xmas pressies from kids to their dad after you have split?!

so have recently split from my DF not on the greatest terms but we still remain civil so we can organise him seeing our two girls 2y and 4mth...so now that xmas is approaching he has said he will c...

Thursday 22 November 09:07pm
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1down1tocome replied to topic Hens party ideas?! HELP

Ooo thanks ladies a topless waiter could be nice, thing is she isnt a real girly girl and possibly a burlesque show or even a cabaret thing might work...i tried to suggest a pamper/spa thing but i ...

Thursday 07 June 03:43pm
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1down1tocome started new topic Hens party ideas?! HELP

Hello all, so i have been given the job of organising my good friends hens night and im stumped! She doesnt want strippers...she wants something where she can make her own cocktails and then do som...

Monday 04 June 08:41pm
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1down1tocome replied to topic Moving from cot to bed

Im wondering this too...because when they do wake at night and say you close the door to their room...do they even put themselves back to bed to sleep?! I know my girl would be playing and pulling ...

Sunday 29 April 04:40am
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1down1tocome replied to topic Looking for mums in Ringwood and surrounds

Hi there I am 23y/o and from Rowville I have a 15mth old girl and another girl due in July ahhhh My mother group and playgroups also didnt work out Congrats on bub no 2!

Tuesday 24 April 12:57am
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1down1tocome replied to topic Baby shower games

Thanks ladies i definately like the sperm on egg one hahaha Although i like most of them i have written them down and will share with my aunty today when we have our baby shower meeting It wil...

Saturday 21 April 07:58pm
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1down1tocome started new topic Baby shower games

Hello all, Just would love some ideas on what baby shower games you may have played that were fun and a little bit different, i keep finding the same ones that have been done to death. Hit me w...

Saturday 21 April 08:42am
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1down1tocome replied to topic middle name help to go with

Ooo i like Holly May (even spelt Mai) and im warming up to Holly Rose...also liking Holly Jade...but Jayde (spelt diff) is a friends name so it keeps putting me off but my partner wanted that for o...

Thursday 19 April 08:05am
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1down1tocome replied to topic Do you make an effort to dress nicely

They should make an effort too! It shouldnt always be up to us ladies.

Wednesday 18 April 05:52am
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1down1tocome replied to topic Do you make an effort to dress nicely

I dont dress nice specifically for DF, i like to get out of the whole pj, trackie thing as it makes me feel a bit more productive during the day, especially with work. Although sometimes we need co...

Wednesday 18 April 04:34am
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